10 Qualities of a Man

1. Priest - Leads his family and community spiritually. He prays with and for his family daily because he knows that the fervent, effectual prayers of a righteous man avail much. He takes his family to church and is not simply present on Sundays but actively involved. He stays submit to the church and its vision.

2. King - Provides financial, emotional, and physical stability for whom he is responsible for.

3. Warrior/Soldier - A protector. His spirit is assertive and aggressive. He is willing to live and die for what he believes in.

4. Character - He does not compromise his beliefs. He has a problem lying to his boss or breaking his promises.

5. Disciplined - Controls his flesh. He understands that success only comes with discipline and there is no room for excuses. He has enough self-control to stop lusting, drinking, smoking, lying, and fornicating.

6. Accountable - Allows himself to be challenged and held to a higher standard than the world would dictate. No man can be strong if he is not accountable to someone else. Do not refuse instruction and always seek wise and Godly counsel. A man without accountability is a dangerous man. "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." Ecclesiastes 4:8-12

7. Committed - Will do whatever it takes to achieve goals. Sleepless nights are a small price to pay.

8. Servant - Jesus was a servant so never believe that serving others needs before your own is beneath you.

9. Visionary - Proverbs 29:18 says, "Where there is no vision the people perish". This man is living today but also sees tomorrow, he is planning and preparing for the future. He has conceived something in his mind and is now moving toward bringing that into existence.

10. Leader - He is the "point man". He leads by example and sets the tone. This man understands that as he goes, so the family goes.

Although there are many more qualities that a man should desire, these are some of the main ones in my eyes. But whatever you do, make sure your desired qualities are from God. If these qualities seem unattainable, remember that it will not happen overnight. We are in this battle together. Be willing to change and God will order your steps.